Optimize your life
Optimize your life
1 Sept 2022. [Audio only.] We live in a world where too many men have lost their way. All too often, we see men who have turned their backs on God and the church. However, a relationship with God is critical for a man to fully embrace his masculine self. In this episode of Untaming …
30 Aug 2022. I describe a number of competitive advantages that come to a man who is willing to nurture or reclaim his mature masculinity. For example, being decisive and holding oneself to high account helps a man to self-improve when it’s needed and adapt well when situations around him change. I note further advantages …
29 Aug 2022. I distinguish immature, toxic, and mature masculinity. Masculinity isn’t “whatever you want it to be” or being authentic self 1000%. Masculinity is a gift, generally recognized or bestowed by other men, who acknowledge your value to the broader community. We, in turn, give our masculine gifts to those around us. Immature and …
26 Aug 2022. A (partial) discussion of what masculinity is. In short, masculinity is “what men want from other men.” (What women want from men is left to a later discussion.)The difference between being a “good man” and “being good at being a man.”Some qualities do men not like in other men or in themselves.Qualities …
15 Aug 2022. Five things you can do right now to increase self-confidence and make a better impression on others. They include: 1. Put your “shoulder blades in your back pockets.”2. Take care of your hygiene and fashion.3. Walk with purpose.4. Slow down your speech and drop your voice.5. Take up space. A few extra …
5 Aug 2022. Why work out? The benefits aren’t just physical, especially the early ones. Here I give a few other reasons why working out is one of the best things you can do for yourself, and why it should be one of the first steps in your self-development journey. Podcast: Play in new window …
26 July 2022 An in-depth look at the 7 steps you go through to master any quality or skill:1. You can’t experience the quality as part of your own resources.2. You identify or locate the “golden quality” you’re looking for.3. You begin to experience the quality in yourself.4. You develop the courage to do the …
